So as I mentioned in my last post, I am suffering from severe anxiety. Currently signed off work, unable to go out, speak to people, deal with conflict, suffering from almost daily panic attacks…. I am a shadow of my former self.
I am on new medication and I am working on my mental health and confidence with the help and support of my wonderful Husband and family in an effort to get back to being me.
I have found one of the side effects of having anxiety, my brain has turned into jelly; I can’t think straight, I lose my train of thought, get confused, have at least 3 tasks on the go at the same time. I am unable to sit still and relax, for fear of slipping into a cloud of depression, anxiety and confusion.
Having gone from working fulltime and running the house, and family (1 husband, 3 kids, 2 dogs and 3 cats) to not having all the usual daily responsibilities, my brain (and hands) is starting to get bored. So I dug out the box of paints, blew the dust off the unused blank canvases and dipped back into creating. I used to paint a lot when i was younger and of course during lockdown, I picked up the paintbrush. But this time it’s different.
This time, I am using my painting as my therapy. I take myself into a corner of the kitchen, put Netflix or Amazon Prime on my phone and completely zone out. It stops the wandering thoughts. I become calmer. I smoke less, worry less and relax. I immerse myself in the canvas.
Although my family must be bored of me asking them if they like the current creation, I am at peace as I am my own master; I am not having to please someone. I am not being micromanaged, or belittled, or moaned at. I am not struggling against an unrealistic corporate deadline, trying desperately to keep at least 3 other people on track for their work-load. I have not got a little icon bleeping at me telling another email has been received or a Teams message has been sent. I am in my heaven for a while.
I have taken photos of some of the canvases I have done over the last 3 weeks. Some are not finished, as I lose interest quickly or I just suddenly feel the need to change completely the look and so I start a new canvas. I will keep all of them, as I have in the past. These are my stepping stones through life.
Below are a few of the canvases I have started, not all are finished in their entirety, for various reasons I find myself unable to complete them. I have uploaded them in the order I painted them. I think its obvious that my state of mind is evident in the painting. The last one at the bottom was started today, a canvas my mum has asked for; this will be completed tomorrow.